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:( if i was there, i’d speak up. i’d say “hey i have a friend who is asexual so shut up!” without directly referencing to you to hopefully avoid even more awkwardness cuz i know that in itself would create more awkwardness

omg and this is why you’re so sweet and I don’t deserve friends like you at allll~

hitsubasadrabbit replied to your post “I need to work on my paper but I’m just trying not to cry and I can’t…”

did….did you speak up about your own asexuality? or did you not say anything?

oh no, I mean what was I gonna say? “hey guyyyss uhhh actually I’m asexual, can you not?” It just would have been so awkward.

and actually one of my best friends who was there has messaged me on Facebook and she apologized for the comments and everything and also thought it was a pretty shitty thing, which I’m so so grateful for. She also said that it was actually a girl who brought it up first and the guy just sort of reacted to it so I don’t blame him /as much/ as the girl and the girl I’m not fond of in the first place so honestly I’m just gonna say “fuck it I’m outta here in three weeks.”

someone else might have gotten it wrong

(Source: howdoimasseffect)

catbuttcat:

An affront to my honor as an asexual would be an offense punishable by a bat’leth in the throat if we were Klingons. Guess it’s lucky we aren’t.

Jess you’re beautiful.

OK last text post I promise. since some people might be like “ok but what happened”

and then I gotta work on my paper.

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It’s even worse when it’s like a roomful of friends, people you feel comfortable in front of, people you’ve always placed aside from the rest of the campus, who have made this school worth going to… 

…all blown up. With a two-second statement and a full minute of roaring laughter.

catbuttcat:

flockofflamingos:

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catbuttcat replied to your post “I guess I can cross “have a whole room of people laugh at your…”

I’m so sorry hun, that’s the absolute worst. Worse than the worst oh god.

even the people I’ve come out to laughed.

People are absolute trash. Do not let them get away with it, you say something next time you see them, that is fucking unacceptable and you should not have to sit quietly and take it.

I wish I was there to comfort you properly.

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It’s so tempting to just let it go; I’m gone in three weeks anyhow.

I need to work on my paper but I’m just trying not to cry and I can’t concentrate.

catbuttcat replied to your post “I guess I can cross “have a whole room of people laugh at your…”

I’m so sorry hun, that’s the absolute worst. Worse than the worst oh god.

even the people I’ve come out to laughed.

thestarlesswanderer:

Being asexual is like being born without a sense of smell but everywhere you go people are spraying perfume in your face and when you ask them to stop and tell them it’s irritating and you can’t smell the perfume anyway they get huffy and respond with “Don’t lie to me; I can clearly see you have a nose. Everybody has a nose therefore everybody smells things and besides maybe you just haven’t found the right scent yet.” and then you want to scream